Step 1.5: Getting rid of stuff
Downsizing for the Dream: How We Prepared for Four Years of Slow Travel
Imagine trading the cluttered closets, busy schedules, and endless “stuff” for a life of freedom and exploration. I will still be working, so speedy travel just doesn’t work because it takes me longer to explore the area outside my busy work schedule.
The Mindset Shift: From Accumulation to Intention
Downsizing isn’t just about shedding belongings; it’s a mindset shift.
We asked ourselves tough questions:
Do we really need this or do we just like having it?
When was the last time we used it?
Could this item be replaced, borrowed, or skipped altogether while traveling?
Phase One: Letting Go of the Big Stuff
The first step was tackling the big-ticket items: our home, cars, and furniture.
The house: Luckily my son and his girlfriend are ready for a home and can afford it, so a lot of the downsizing ended up as gifting to them.
Phase Two: The Great Declutter
Sorting through our belongings was the most emotional part of the process. We divided everything into categories: keep, sell, donate, and toss.
Keep: These were irreplaceable items like passports, essential tech for work, and a few sentimental treasures that could fit into a storage box.
Sell: High-value items such as electronics and designer clothing went to online marketplaces.
Donate: Books, kitchen gadgets, and everyday clothing were donated to local charities.
Toss: Anything broken, expired, or beyond repair got recycled or thrown away.
Phase Three: Packing for a Nomadic Life
Packing for slow travel is an art form. Unlike traditional travel, we needed to balance versatility, durability, and minimalism.
Clothing: A capsule wardrobe of mix-and-match outfits for various climates was essential. Think layers, wrinkle-resistant fabrics, and multipurpose shoes. This is the most challenging part, as I tend to run cold and hope to travel most places in the off season to avoid crowds and high prices.
Tech: Our work-from-anywhere toolkit included laptops, portable monitor, keyboard, and noise-canceling headphones. Can see more of all this here.
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Challenges Along the Way
Downsizing isn’t all smooth sailing.
I have gotten rid of about 2/3rds of my clothing and have packed away 3 totes of clothes to swap out or use when I return to the U.S. for work events. Luckily, since family is taking over the house, I will be able to store things in the spare bedroom.
The Joy of Simplicity on the Road
Living out of a suitcase in prior years has taught us that we really don’t miss the stuff - coming home can be a bit overwhelming (particularly for me) and just dealing with all the stuff. I am much more of a minimalist than my husband.
Tips for Anyone Ready to Downsize for Slow Travel
Start early: Downsizing is a process. Give yourself at least six months to a year to work through it.
Digitize what you can: Scan important documents and photos to keep them accessible without the bulk.
Embrace a trial run: Try living with less for a few months before making the leap. It’s a great way to see what you truly need.
Find joy in giving: Knowing your items are helping someone else can ease the sting of letting go.
Stay flexible: Life on the road will come with surprises, so leave room in your bags—and your mindset—for adaptability.
Four Years and Counting
We’re now about 9 months prior to our giving up the house date. I will be leaving for my last long trip prior to this date and spend another 3 months in Portugal - December 30, 2024 - March 25, 2024. This is actually the second time I’ve gotten rid of all/most of my belongings. While hard, I know the process. What about you? Have you ever downsized for a big life change? Share your stories in the comments—I’d love to hear how you’ve embraced a life of less!
